Saturday, September 4, 2010

Day 1- To my dear best friend:)

Best friend.
What a weird term. It seems that different people have different interpretations of the term, "best friend". To some, it means that they're the person you hang out with. To others, it's someone you tell everything to, and know that they won't judge you.
For me, it's those and more.
I find that I have difficulty having one "best friend". But, if I were to give that title to any person in the whole world, I would have to say it is you, my lovely Teiglet.
You put up with me so much. Well, we put up with each other.
See, I see friendship as a two way street, as I'm sure most people do. But I find that in my relationships, it seems to happen that I give more than I receive. Not with you.
You're the best.
I love you so much. You put up with me when I'm crying, angry, hyper, calm, hurt, furious, annoyed, sad, depressed, lower than depressed, you do it all. I owe you soooo much.
And you always knows exactly what I need to hear. I don't always want to hear what I need to hear, but I know that what you say, you say out of love.
Our friendship has not gone without it's share of trials. But I believe the trials that we face have made us stronger and closer. I love that I can always turn to you when I feel like my life is spiraling. You're always there to pick me back up, and I love you for that.
You're gorgeous, funny, kind, gentle, sarcastic (good thing, I am too), non-judgmental, strong, and sooo understanding. I appreciate everything you do for me and I love that you let me help you.
I love that I can feel so comfortable with your family. Even with the incessant name calling and such.. cough.. I am so comfortable with you guys and I completely love it! It's a great feeling:)
It's weird to think that two years ago, I thought you were annoying and you thought I hated you.. and look at how our friendship has evolved! Ha. Okay, so we didn't start out on the best of terms, but you can't really blame me for why I felt the way I did, and I certainly don't blame you. It seems that the weird connection that we had was one of the unifying things to create the spark of our friendship.
I love our inside jokes. And I love that we laugh at the same things and feel the same way about so many things, but are totally okay with each other if we disagree about something.
That's so important to me.
You make me want to be a better person. Every day. You push me to become something more than what I am, which is really important for me, I need that motivation:)
I love you so so much, you're an amazing best friend, and I'm so glad to have you in my life, I hope you never leave it:)

All my love,
Sofers

1 comment:

  1. I LOVE YOU TOO! Sofers, you're an amazing person who takes the credit away from yourself and gives it to me. I want you to know that I will always be in your life (if you want me to) and that I will appreciate and love every second. I love how you support me in everything I do and you can interpret the social things that I suck at noticing. I wish we hung out more, but I feel like we're always together through everything you do. I never want you to feel like you can't talk to me and I'm always here, just not always with answers. I love you :) -Teiglet

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